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Iโve written about cousins in all sorts of ways here (i.e., seeย thisย andย thisย andย thisย andย this). My cousin-factor is blessedly high.
There are the Blood Cousins: I have somewhere in the family of 60. There are the Friend Cousins: I have many many more, thanks God. There are the Sister Cousins (when you like your sister so much you call her cousin instead of sisterโฆ): I have one, and she is gold.
Certainly for many, the world of the cousins is peripheral. Itโs a convenient way of naming that person over there, across the room at a wedding or a funeral or holiday dinner, whose parent and my parent are family.
Where I come from, the world of the cousins is something quite different. The weddings and the funeralsโyes, the cousins pile in and we do love ourselves for that. Perhaps itโs our sheer quantity thatโs so exciting, though one could argue the numbers should actually make us less close, not more. Instead, we have enough laughter/tragedy/trust/food/bread among us to keep us clannishly, tribally close. And proud of one another.
Take my cousin Celine, case in point. Blood cousin, with our fathers brothers. Sheโs someone who defined the word my father used to describe people he particularly enjoyed: dynamic.
She took me by the hand way back, way way back when I was first thinking on who in the world I was going to be. I wasnโt sure. I didnโt know. Was it advertising? She showed me around her big world producing ads at the time at Leo Burnett in Chicago. Her level of cool seemed out of reach, even though the whole experience was meant to teach me otherwise.
Also back in the day, she and I tried to capture the secret of Lebanese flatbreads together in Sittoโs little kitchen. We took notes and practiced our hands until we could really, truly throw that dough, even if only for a moment. Afterward, Celine sent me a photo of Sitto next to her big stack of bread holding the glass coke bottle she used to sprinkle them with water. โMaster of the Syrian Bread,โ she wrote underneath. Sittoโs level of mastery seemed out of reach, but the photo of that day reminds me otherwise.
It wasnโt long after a day like this that Celine and her sissie came a-visiting me and my sissie in Chicago, circa 2010โpre-book, pre-blog, pre-so very very much. We would bake. We would eat. We would laugh. We would talk, about the food and the family. There is video to prove it, and to remember the beginnings (or middle-of-things) on my mission in life today:
That weekend we talked about lifeโs funny way of turning in unexpected and sometimes painful directions. We had just lost Ruth, and I had my own wounds to lick. It was that weekend that I first uttered a public and strong โleave my job for culinary school.โ That level of change had for a good long time seemed out of reach, but the cheering little sister-cousin-crowd encouraged me otherwise. Note my t-shirt, too, which reads: HOPE.
Not all that long ago, a similar little cousin crowd got together to make and perfect grape leaves. The talk turned to videos, the demonstrations of all of this food that would make it so much easier for us to know it and learn it and cook it and share it and eat it. I said that Iโd tried, and tried, and have circled the big wide world of YouTube like there might be a sink hole in the middle. Or worse, a dog who bites.
Celine looked up from her grape leaves and the (many, addictive) homemade pita chips we ate for sustenance to hold us over while the rolls cooked.ย Maureen. Video is a must-have. A MUST-HAVE,ย she said. (remember, this was 2010, a lot has changed in the world of video-ease since then…)
Then she said, perhaps accidentally, that sheโd be happy to help get the video off the ground if I wanted. God knows I jumped, literally up and down, at the chance. Poor cousin. She must have regretted the offer on the spot. Thankfully she didnโt have all of the other kind, talented people whoโve tried to help me make videos in the past there to tell her to run, fast and far away.
Next thing you know, dynamic cousin has pulled together our own version of a dream team and sheโs in the kitchen making it happen, and doing things like bringing Dan into the picture so I stop going all Cindy Brady the minute the camera light turns on (Remember? Here).
Making the videos just seemed like it wouldnโt, couldnโt and maybe really just shouldnโt happen over here. But now weโve got a whole bunch, including the newย how-to pita chips. And I canโt wait to see what happens next with a cousin who keeps showing me otherwise.
Donโt forget to check out how to make pita bread before making this recipe, so your homemade pita chips are extra delicious!
